When Imitation Isn’t Flattery

If imitation is the sincerest form of flattery, Mark Zuckerberg is the biggest sycophant on earth.

The Cholmondeley sisters and their swaddled babies by an unknown artist c. 1610 (public domain - Wikipedia)

“Authenticity isn’t about being someone else. It’s about being the best version of yourself. I like you just the way you are.”
— Fred Rogers

I once worked for a leader I admired deeply. He exuded charm and confidence, and was effortlessly kind and thoughtful in the way he dealt with people.

I’ve long wanted to model my own behavior after him, but I struggle when I try — not because I can’t be charming, kind or thoughtful, but because when I do it, it seems like I’m trying.

And then it doesn’t feel authentic.

I witnessed the person who was tapped to be his eventual replacement try the same thing and it was awkward to watch. He was trying to be authentic but he just seemed smarmy.

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